Deadly dangerous games of teenagers. Parental Assembly "Children's Security on the Internet or Deadly Dangerous Games of Teenagers

Daria Otcha Thursday, February 16, 2017, 11:47


Teens often do not know how to build relationships in the real world Photo: Pixabay.

"Blue Kit", "Quiet House", "Sea of \u200b\u200bWhales" - online games, bringing teenagers to suicide, and Ukraine. The game begins when the child voluntarily enters into a certain Internet community. Curators offer him to perform tasks (for example, make cuts on your body) and provide evidence in the form of a photo or video. And although the refusal to perform actions at the initial stages of the game threatens only the exception of it, then the curators are no longer allowed to quit the game, threatening the child himself and members of his family. The duration of the game is on average - 50 days, and the end result is suicide. The teenager participating in such a game carefully hides actions from others, so parents do not always have time to notice that something is wrong with their child. What is important to mean to protect your child from participating in the deadly game, the "apostle" tells the psychologist Daria Rych.

Why teenagers puts "blue whale"

First of all, it is worth understanding who such a teenager. A teenager is a man who is just starting to "open" himself. It is at this age that an assessment of himself is formed (and not by parents and teachers as before), many knowledge of themselves is changed (I'm not "good," because my mother said, and I am "good" because I do it).

To build a "paintings", the adolescent is important to the reaction of his one year old, but adults lose their credibility, because they continue to consider it a child. The conversations of the soul often do not come out - parents pay attention to secondary questions (whether it eats well, whether the heat is dressed, what evaluations at school). About the internal experiences we usually do not go. But communication with friends is quite another matter - they are experiencing the same problems.

Do not forget that adolescents have a hormonal restructuring of the body, which is why their emotional background is unstable. They may be sad or joyfully without much reasons, which, of course, scares them. In an effort to get rid of it, the child can enter into contacts with absolutely different people and sometimes strange things. This is a kind of cry for help.

It is important to understand that modern teenagers differ from previous generations - they have been surrounded by informational technologies since birth and function as in the real world, so in cyberspace. At the same time, very often their life on the Internet is more saturated, successful and bright than in reality. There are more friends here, there is an opportunity at any time to talk with others, lay out photos that will show that his life is bright, beautiful and secured. If a child is an outsider in real life, then on social networks it can easily create a new successful life for himself.

Modern teenagers often do not know how to build relationships in the real world. Their relationship is supported online, and feelings are simplified to emoticons. With this communication, facial expressions are not involved. Adults cannot understand the child due to the fact that his face simply does not reflect emotions. Inability to interact directly translates the sphere of communicating a teenager in online (it is so easier, it is more familiar and understandable).

Games like "Blue Whale" are able to satisfy many children's needs. The main one, of course, is attention from the side of the same year. Without knowing how to understand in your inner world, the teenager often adopt external attributes characteristic of the group of his friends. Thus, teenage subcultures are formed. And if earlier popularity could be earned, especially driving, making something special, now many children receive it online - lead their blogs, reviews on YouTube, exhibit photos in Instagram, etc.

Pushes to participate in similar games and movies. Recently, there have been a lot of films about adolescents that participate in survival games (for example, "hungry games" and "labyrinth"). And in July 2016, the film "Nerve" (Nerve) came out with Emma Roberts and Dave Franco in high roles. The main slogan "play to survive ...". The main characters participate in a similar game, performing different tasks, often risky, and getting money remuneration for each of them. Not dealt with the film and without romantic relationship between characters. Well, what is not an incentive for a teenager try similar?

Another reason for participating in such games for a child is to attract the attention of parents. After all, if adults learn about the danger that threatens them, they will understand the depth of his experiences, they will feel guilty, they will pay attention and love.

With the receipt of love and attention is associated with the whole topic of teenage suicides. The children's picture of his death is often associated with a fantasy about how the funeral will occur (beautiful body, flowers surrounding in mourning clothes will grieve, feel guilty for not "missed", etc.). In such fantasies, the child seeks to get what he lacks in the real world. Since usually before adolescence, the child does not often see death, he is not afraid of her.

Teenage suicide is not desire to die. It is rather the opportunity to get away from the problems that occur in a child in connection with the acquisition of a new social status (unhappy love, non-acceptance surrounding, inability to build relations, etc.). Suicide may also be a manifestation of autoagression - if the child does not cope with his problems and for some reason can not show anger in the midst, he directs it on himself. The suicide can push the awareness of the fact that he is not the same as they want to see others (simply speaking - not perfect).

However, suicide as fulfilling tasks in the online game is different from the usual fact that the teenager may not experience negative emotions. Therefore, adults are more difficult to recognize the impending threat. To help the child cannot succumb to the destructive influence of foreign ones, the adult should take care of his needs. It is important to understand what can be done to establish contact with a teenager, and what is clearly not worth doing.

What not to do parents

1. To arrange checks and inspections - the child will only close and learn better to hide its actions. A teenager needs its own territory, private life. Online conversations are the most intimate, which may be from him, so the parent does not just have the right to read them. Coming in the personal space of the child, the adult reveals his disrespect and defeat the teenager as a fully functioning person.

2. Prohibit communication in social networks. It is online that goes a significant part of the child's life, and he will not be ready to part with her. To continue communication, the teenager can secretly go online. It will teach him to deceive. If the child is very obedient and will not break the ban - then understanding that the virtual life of friends passes by - will make a teenager unhappy.

3. Scold a child and shouting at him. It is better to set out the experiences calmly, calling the feelings and conditions that the parent experiences. This will satisfy the need for a teenager in a "deep" and understanding communication will allow you to establish contact, understand the situation and understand the position of the adult. In addition, pronouncing his states, the adult shows how he regulates his emotions, which will allow the teenager to learn how to do the same.

4. put pressure on a teenager. You should not expect from a child that he must meet the expectations of the parents. It is important to explain to him that even if the teenager will not approach all the criteria of a successful person, parents still love him and are ready to support.

5. Compare with others. Comparing the teenager with others, adults reject it as it is. This violates the self-identity of the teenager (I am not the same as necessary) and develops in it the feeling of loneliness, unnecessaryness and its inferiority.

6. To frighten the unknown (phrases like "just try"). Incomprehensible punishments are developing fantasies on the topic "What could it be." Such phrases strengthen the alarm, which can be unbearable for a child (and provoke unwanted actions). If, after committing prohibited actions, the punishment of the child turned out to be too insignificant or did not follow in general, then the parents lose their credibility.

7. ignore the manipulative phrases of the child on his death ("I'd rather die ...", "what would you say on my funeral?", Etc.). It is very important that adults spoke about death with a child: that she can be terrible, ugly, which is waiting for a person after it (depending on the religious affiliation of the family). Such a topic of the conversation will make thinking about death and see it not only with his own eyes. Of course, you should not overdo it with such conversations - they scare the child. But it is in this way that fear of death is supported.

What can your parents

1. Talk about such groups on the Internet. Explain that other people who pursue their goals manipulate teenagers. The problems of the child for the curators of the game are not important.

2. Create an opportunity for a teenager to ask for help. It is important that the child understands that there is a number of adults who can help him - parents, teacher, school psychologist, social service worker, confidence telephone or priest (if the family is a believer) and others.

3. Do not leave a child one on one with his problems. Interested in his life, the parent shows his love and care. Discussing the situation with the child, the adult teaches to look at it from different sides, which contributes to its effective resolution. The parent has already been in adolescence and has the experience of solving some difficulties. But you should not turn the conversation into a monologue "And in our time ...".

4. Describe your feelings. Thus, the adult will show how the child is important to him and his inner world. The exchange of emotions will allow to establish contact and navigate the teenager in the situation.

5. To know the values \u200b\u200bof the child. For this, it is quite enough to just talk about them. You can ask the child about what worries him, who wants to become, what to achieve and what would he want to get as a result of solving his problems. Entering new values \u200b\u200bshould be very neat, without a pressure, without having ridicule, but carefully convincing a teenager in their necessity.

6. Be able to ask for forgiveness if the wrongs. This adult will show that he respects the feelings of the child, and also gives him the right to a mistake. After all, there are no ideal people.

Of course, the interests of adolescents are changing fairly quickly and attention to such online games will soon fall, but it is important to remember that the participation of parents in the life of their children can protect them from a sufficiently large number of dangers.

Daria Rych, psychologist, especially for the "apostrophe"

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A new game, or rather posts in groups in social networks, accompany strange pictures with whales floating in the ocean, with hashtags « blue whale» , "Wake me up at 4.20", "I'm in the game", "Quiet house". By and large, this is the same game model. In these games teenagers offered to play closed groups in social network"In contact with" and closed accounts in "Instagram".

Essence games - It consists in performing certain tasks that gives participants "administrator" Groups or account owner.

Those who wish to participate in the game leave the post on their pages on social networks "Game" And accompany him a certain hashteg.

The following quatrains are known. inquiry:

Blue house, which stands on the waves.

Blue whale that floats in the clouds.

Take me, whale, to yourself

I'm waiting for instructions. I'm in the game.

On request S. a teenager is associated with some"Curators" And give "tasks". Further communication, according to available data, is already underway in Viber, WhatsApp, "In contact with". From the tasks may be a request to cut the blade on the hand drawing or a certain symbol on the palm of the eye. The pattern may be, for example, a silhouette of a whale, or a word "Whale".

At the last stage, the assignment becomes suicide "Plays".

Those who want to get out of gamesThreaten with family with family. As a threat, there may be a message about the fact that participation in the game will be known parents and teachers teenager.

At the first stage games Child requires their geodata - location and address, which makes threats more specific and frightening for "Player".

Now "In contact with" Blocks "Suicidal" groups, redirecting those who are trying there get, on the Psychological Aid Service page teenagers. IN Internet online Even special social videos about dangerous game.

Parents obligations to control the behavior of their children in social networks, because by law all responsibility for action children, one way or another, lies on their parents.

Deadly dangerous game"Run or die" Also begins to appear on the streets of our city.

These games have one feature: They are designed for witnesses. Without "Report" They lose meaning. Children need attention, and here you need to work in two directions.

First, give more informal attention, to unite in something with the child against what seems to him the most disgusting in his surrounding world.

Combined with the child, we give him a chance to faith in understanding, on the possibility of freedom of choice.

And, secondly, this effect is outside. Dependence on opinion, manipulating consciousness. Finite target: Direct this riot against those who are trying to dictate the child Rules games.

The game "Disappearance of 24 hours". In various regions, cases of disappearance are fixed teenage. And some of them are associated with a new game. All these entertainment, one way or another, threaten human life.

Find out whether your daughter or son play in the game "Disappearance of 24 hours", no time. Contact the police immediately. You can contact any police station personally or declare a disappearance by phone.

« Dangerous groups» - Known more such names as:

"Whales float up",

"Wake me up in 4 :twenty",

"F57",

"F58",

"Quiet house",

"Rina",

"Nya. until",

"50 days before mine ..."

The reasons:

Experiencing offense, loneliness, alienation, misunderstanding.

Valid or imaginary loss of love parents.

Estimation related to death, divorce or care parents from family.

Feeling guilt, shame, offended by pride.

Fear of shame, ridicule or humiliation.

Fear of any punishment.

Love failures, early pregnancy.

Feeling revenge, malice, protest.

The desire to attract attention.

Feeling hopelessness.

The desire to punish the offender.

Depressive states.

Most frequent cause Attempts of suicide among teenage - Family conflicts with parents.

In second place - the threat of the loss of a loved one (unrequited love)

In third place is an unfair attitude, charge, quarrel.

Immediately pay attention if the child says the following phrases: "I'm going to commit suicide"; "I can't live here.".

Either progress the hint of their intention as: "I will no longer be a problem for anyone"; "You no longer have to worry about me".

If a teens Many joke on the topic of suicide.

Show interest in death.

It is necessary to pay attention to behavioral signs:

1. They distribute other things that have a lot of personal significance, lead to the order of business, put together with long enemies.

2. Demonstrate radical changes in behavior.

3. Show signs of helplessness, hopelessness and despair.

You can observe situational signs:

1. Socially is isolated (there is no friends or has only one friend, feels rejected.

2. Lives in an unstable environment.

3. Feels like a victim of violence.

4. Earlier attempts by suicide.

5. It has a tendency to suicide.

6. suffered a heavy loss ( the death of someone from loved ones, Divorce parents).

7. It is too critical in relation to yourself.

Advice parents:

Talk with your child interest how the day went.

Always emphasize all good and successful.

Do not put pressure on teenager, do not impose excessive requirements.

Demonstrate the child a real love for him, and not just words to feel that he really love him.

Show sincereny interest in the child's affairs, Talk to equal.

Give your child the opportunity to find your own answers, even when you think you know the way out of the crisis situation.

When you do not know what to say, do not say anything, but be near!

Discuss - Open discussion of plans and problems relieves anxiety children.

Thanks for attention!

"Blue Whale" ("Quiet House") is a deadly dangerous game, in the final of which children commit suicide.

Unfortunately, this game has become popular among Russian adolescents. The deadly game has already attracted the attention of the management of the Ministry of Internal Affairs.

The essence of the game "Blue Kit" is quite simple. A teenager, starting to play it, receives regularly different tasks. The first of them is to scratch in the hand of blue whale and send a photo as proof. The last task will commit suicide.

It is already known that the "leading" games are blackmailing participants in that they calculated their IP addresses and if the suicide does not happen - death will come for their loved ones.

Who fulfills the role of "leading" yet. These can both mentally unhealthy adults and teenagers with a bunch of complexes that are trying to assert themselves through the death of others.

The game "Blue Kit" 50 days. With each day of the tasks that the child receive is more suicidal. There was a case when the task on the cut cut was on 4 days. And, most strange, few people complain about these groups on social networks.

In Russia, at least 16 adolescents have committed suicide, starting to play the game "Blue Kit". Play this game and teenagers in other countries. So among those who committed suicide and a student of the school from Karaganda (Kazakhstan). The uncle of the deceased girl told reporters that the whole family knew about the existence of mortar groups on the Internet. But no one assumed that it would touch them. In a few hours before suicide, the girl behaved as usual, talked to their familiar topics, without giving out plans to leave life.

"Nobody suspected anything. The day before yesterday, at night she got up. Talked with someone on the phone, looked like, was like. Then he went to the bath, washed, dressed and hanged himself. We were from them yesterday. I decided to tell about it so that people pay attention to their children. I wanted to warn everyone, "the man said.

"Galya studied at the School at the cook. Should have finished. Such a naive, modest girl. She shared her friend more with her grandfather and grandmother than with her parents. She did not have a guy. The other day promised to come to her grandparents. Before all this happened, she erased the information from the phone and turned it off. Then, when he was included, he turned out to be blocked, "said another relative of the victim.

After the phone managed to unlock, it had a record that pointed out that she played a deadly game. "Blue Whale, a quiet house, 420 I'm in the game, test 57 or 84?", "Said this inscription.

How to protect the child from death groups

Psychologists advise parents more carefully treat their children. The child should not feel lonely and abandoned. He must look for protection from relatives, and not to wander through the network in search of various groups, which, as practice shows, can be even deadly. Specialists noted that the game "Blue Whale" involve those children who are currently experiencing some soulful flour. If in the heart of the teenager will not be wounds - he will see a group of "Blue Whale" VKontakte and will pass by.

In social networks VKontakte and Instagram (it is now becoming more and more popular - there is no need to write, to be noticed enough to put a funny picture, just made by a smartphone, and this is easier) In late January - early February began to appear pictures with whales floating in Ocean, and with Mantic Housher "Blue Whale", "Wake me up at 4.20", "I'm in the game", "Quiet House". Hastegi - Who does not know - these are links by clicking on which you can get to the desired page in the social network or in a specific community.

According to the Ministry of Internal Affairs for yesterday, in Kyrgyzstan, not a single case of suicide for the fault of the game Blue Whale, the cause of which will be the Internet.
Employees of operational divisions of the Ministry of Internal Affairs are closely monitored. In addition to observation of dubious sites, before employees of the Main Department of the Criminal Inquiry (Gur) and the Inspectorate for Minors (IDD), the task of conducting preventive and explanatory work on the game of Blue Whale in educational institutions.


Blue whale as a modern suicidal group

In early February, the Ukrainian society stirred news about the so-called deadly suicidal games "Blue Kit" in groups, social networks. Allegedly, teenagers are so influenced by unknown curators of a dangerous game, which commit suicide.
"Scotch" tried to figure out how serious the problem is and whether parents are worthwhile for their children.
About "Blue Kite" Russian media wrote last year - then " New Newspaper"He conducted a scandalous investigation of death groups. Many were very biased to the material in which the history of the creation of deadly publics in social networks was emotionally pretended and the definition conclusions were made about the relationship of "Blue Whale" and an increase in adolescent suicides in Russia.

Remember, in childhood, you could also play a similar viral game, but much easier - for example, a "letter of happiness" came, which it was necessary to distribute for a certain time, otherwise you were expected to "mysterious curse" and the like. Naturally, no one thought such papers perceive seriously, and even more so believe in written.


Blue whale "floats" in the VK group

What it lies: A teenager writes to the group. He gradually gives the tasks that he should do in live air. After their execution, he was appointed a curator who spoke of further actions, namely the drag of suicide: to cut the veins, hang, drink a bunch of Tablets etc. Next, the teenager performs this theatrical action to the camera, and then for a while leaves the network, believed, allegedly, dead. About the Blue Kite Group, Russian media wrote last year - then "New Gazeta" conducted a scandalous investigation into death groups. Many very biased to the material in which the history of the creation of deadly publics in social networks was emotionally pretended, the Blue Whale Groups in the VC and the unambiguous conclusions were made about the relationship of the "blue whale" and increasing the number of suicides of adolescents in Russia.
Whatever it was, the topic surfaced to the surface, one of the organizers of the Blue Whale group "VKontakte" Philip Fox were detained, criminal proceedings were initiated.


Blue whale as a group of death

In the age of technology, it became very difficult to protect his child from various kinds of inadequate information. All these things a la "Parental Control" and the methods of blocking sites over time ceased to work. If the child learned about something bad, then not necessarily from the Internet. It is quite possible a child will receive unnecessary information from the environment, be something classmates, friends who have no "parental control."

In the death group, the game "Blue Kit" seems to be all a little serious. To participate in the game, you must leave the hashteg # bluekite on your page in the social network. Hosteg is often accompanied by verses; Here are quite typical:
Blue house that stands on the waves
Blue whale that floats in the clouds
Take me, whale, to yourself
I'm waiting for instructions. I am ready for the game.
The game begins after publishing a message: the user, allegedly, the "curator" of the game is associated, usually from the account that cannot be identified. He explains the rules:
Nobody talk about this game;
Always fulfill my tasks, whatever it is;
For non-fulfillment of any task you are excluded from the game forever and you are waiting for bad consequences.
Also, the curator issues tasks; They are most likely 50 - one for the day (probably it is a reference to the book "50 days before my suicide").
According to "Medusa", there is a typical list of tasks - it (text and picture) sent several players and wishing to play in the "Blue Whale" in the "VKontakte" user's death group.

In social networks, groups that attach adolescents to the "game of death" are activated and pushed to the fatal step. The "curators" of groups offer them to apply scars, get into touch at 4.20, cut the veins and step by step lead to the last draw.

Scratch whale on hand

The network is actively distributed about the information about the dangerous for adolescents the game "Run or die", in another case, it is called "Blue Whale" ("Silent House"). Hearing about it, some parents are panic, others are absolutely calm, because they trust their children and do not believe that they can do so stupid. But still concerns for our children - this is a normal feeling of parents. Therefore, the best thing we can do is to teach a child who cannot succumb to such provocations and be able to defend their point of view.

The so-called "blue whale" ("Silent House") is a deadly dangerous game, in the final of which children commit suicide. The essence of the game is quite simple. A teenager, starting to play it, receives regularly different tasks. The first of them is to scratch in the hand of blue whale and send a photo as proof. The last task will commit suicide. It is already known that the "leading" games are blackmailing participants in that they calculate their addresses and, if suicide does not happen, allegedly comes the death of someone from people close to teenagers. Who plays the role of "curators" until it is established. It can be both mentally unhealthy adults and adolescents with a bunch of complexes, who are trying to assert themselves through the death of others. The game "Blue Kit" 50 days. Exactly 50 days, a teenager receives the tasks that it must accomplish, and each time they are more suicidal. There was a case when the task for the cut ridge was carried out at the fourth day. And, most strange, few people complain about these groups on social networks.

In Russia, at least 16 adolescents have committed suicide, starting to play in the "blue whale". And the game of death in social networks is not alone, and not two ... if we consider that they attract adolescents and in other countries, then this is a real disaster.


Psychological signs of dependence on the game

Signs that appear in behavior in children who play in such games are sadness, aggression, the child closes his hands or any other face, demonstrates an index finger. As a rule, it does not fall out, even if it goes to bed early. Make sure your child sleeps in the early morning watches, does whale paint, butterflies, unicorns? Is the following in groups containing in the title: "Whales float", "wake me up 4.20", F57, F58, "Quiet House", "Rina", "Nya.", "Sea of \u200b\u200bWhales", "50 days to my ... ". In correspondence with friends (on a personal "wall") there are phrases "Wake me up at 4.20", "I'm in the game." DANGER, if numbers appear, ranging from 50 and less.

In Mariupol, the 15-year-old girl jumped from the 13th floor. According to the stories of friends, she was signed in the "Death Group" in social network And performed the settings of the moderator, which ordered it to step from the height. Mariupolka laid out a picture of December 8, made from the height of the 13th floor - this photo was also a quest condition. This is how many suicide children in Russia have been received. And on December 8 and 9, the "groups of death" announced the wave of suicide adolescents. This was written on this social network. Muscovite Ekaterina Melikhova, providing psychological assistance to teenagers.

How to protect the child from the "Death Group"

1. Psychologists advise parents more carefully treat their children, constantly maintain emotional contact with them. The child should not feel lonely, abandoned, devoid of parental care, their human love and support. He must look for protection from relatives, and not to wander through the network in search of various groups, which, as practice shows, can be even deadly. Many specialists note that the game "Blue Whale" is involved in those children who themselves are at the moment some kind of mental injury. The game is designed only for unsure people who are trying to prove their coolness, courage, courage. It will be useful to inform the children that a truly brave person risks only in particularly important cases, and not exchanged the life of anything not justified heroism. I am convinced that if the parents are extremely interconnected with a teenager and in his heart there is peace of mind, he will see a group of "Blue Whale" in social
Networks will definitely be passed by her as psychologically inappropriate interest and mood.

2. Offer the child to memorize several phrases that can be parry attempts to take on "weakly":

  • I do not want to do not care what you think about me, I will not play it.
  • I have more interesting things. What kind? None of your business.
  • I am not interested in me. I do not make what I'm not interested.

3. Tell your child that being an auditor of someone else's stupidity is also undesirable. Failure to be the viewer of some dangerous extreme is a chance to protect the guys who are trying to the public, from unnecessary risk.

Favorite symbol of most of such publishes - whales. They are present in the names, in the pictures, in video, posts. Kitami call themselves and participants of these groups. Whales are not chosen by chance - these animals are sometimes thrown ashore, killing themselves.

How to restore emotional contact with the child

Parents should try to work out every day and secure the skills of positive communication and behavior with the child:

Too goodly, always welcome your child, consider when meeting the goodwill of the eyes, a smile, a gentle pronounced name. This is very important at the first contact, i.e. Preparations for contact, entry into the situation and the way out of the situation itself. And every new contact is updated in the morning, since the child for tomorrow loses the emotionally impression of the past. Everything has to repeat each time and to work out again and again a positive habit of being such a friendly parent.

The administrator of the "Death Groups" and the Creator of the ominous Hestega Filipp Buchekin was detained in St. Petersburg in early December last year. Publics in which he pushed children to death, blocked. The man admitted that, thanks to his direct participation, 17 children died during the year. However, unknown "curators" continue to contact adolescents and pushed them to death.

  • If the contact is installed and the child reacts benevolently, then ask him about well-being, health, affairs. Formed mutual confidence will continue to stay in close contact, ask questions and receive answers.
  • Carefully listen to the child, what he says, do not interrupt it in a conversation, let him speak out, relax, feel necessary, useful, meaningful. So communicating, your child will receive respect from your part and for the support provided to him will begin to experience the same respect for you.
  • Be behavior with compliant, restrained, modest. Testing such an influence, your child will feel respectfulness, approval on your part and thereby tumped on a positive wave of communication.
  • Speak calmly, unlikely; Sign with your hands, smoothly, flexible. Emotional balance, the integrity of words, the flexibility of the body language will not cause irritable reactions in the child and will create a situation of comfortable relationships.
  • Deservedly praise the child, show sincere signs of sympathy - it will support the atmosphere of friendly relations.
  • Find all positive in the child. The main thing in this case is to at least notice a beautiful button in it, clean shoes, cause the first reaction of the reception, because in every bad there is always a good, take a child, what it is, it means, it means, initially forgive him.
  • Always thank the child for the attention rendered to you in a conversation or help. Do it always sincerely. It has been fully fulfilling all these recommendations, you can achieve in behavior and communicating with a child of a good result of mutual understanding.

According to the Russian publication "New Gazeta", out of 130 young people who committed suicide over the past six months across Russia, about 80 consisted in these "death groups" and prepared to consciously deprive themselves to life, acting on someone's pointed .

Dear parents, teachers, drivers! Let's be extremely attentive to our children at home, at work, on the roads and prevent an impending wave of the consequences of dangerous games.

From the editorialFortunately, there are no officially registered cases in Belarus when children suffered from these games. However, such games stirred Russia and Kazakhstan.